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95% of women confess to feeling

like a fraud in some (or all) areas of their lives.

(I’m pretty sure the others are lying.)

If you feel like me (I KNOW I’m not alone), and have had more days like this, than NOT like this, it’s time to do something.

You are NOT a failure.

You are normal and EVERYONE feels this way sometimes.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

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2012: World Year 5 in Numerology

January 3, 2012 by  
Filed under Happiness, Numerology

Add up all the individual digits in 2012 (2+0+1+2) and you get 5. This is the World Year (or Universal Year) and depending on the numbers in your personal numerology chart (especially your Life Path Number and your Personal Year Number) and this could be a fantastic or a bumpy year for you!

The Number 5 Characteristics (general)

  • Adventure
  • Variety and spontaneity lead the way
  • Not the time for any kind of major commitment (marriage especially)
  • Celebrators of life
  • Restless and must keep moving around

***Remember that this will also depend on the other (and more important) numbers in your own personal numerology! ***

This is THE YEAR for clearing away anything that doesn’t work for you any more. Expect the unexpected. Try not to get overly attached to any one outcome because things can change in an instant! This is a great year to live in the moment and celebrate life to the fullest, the ups AND the downs, because their is not point in fighting it.

It is curious that this is also the year that everyone is so obsessesd with regarding ‘the end of time.’ Although, I personally do not belive that the world will end on December 21, I do think that this year presents the opportunity to drastically change your life IF YOU CHOOSE.

Take responsibility for your choices, enjoy the adventures that come your way and expect good things to happen this year in the world; it’s in the numbers!

If you are interested in learning more about your personal numerology and how to release what isn’t working, check out my Out With The Old sale to save up to 50% on numerology classes or reports.

Out with the old! Sale

Happy New Year!

So many things have happened to me in the last 10 days (since I went underground and offline to celebrate Christmas and New Years). I got in touch with my authentic self again. Did a mini life cleanse on my life. Set new priorities.

My husband accepted a new job, in a new city.

We had a serious buyer put an offer on our house BEFORE we even put it on the market. Gotta love real estate agents who are ambitious and know their network marketing!

I’ve spent some time relaxing, reflecting and releasing attachments (especially the one to our first home! This is what allowed it to sell overnight.)

As 2012 is a World Year 5 in Numerology (2+0+1+2=5), and I am now in a Personal Year 5, all of this is to be expected. 5 is a time to release the old-not-working-any-more and move on to new adventures! Because of this, I’m having an Out With The Old Sale to replace my usual 12 Days of Christmas Sale.


January 3 – January 8, 2012 Only

The Master Life Cleanse Home Study Kit 2.1
Save 40% ($547 $328)

Talk about ‘Out with the old!’  The original version, created in 2008, was the exact process I took to go from angry, resentful, over weight and overwhelmed to the happy and peaceful entrepreneur I am now! If you’ve made 2012 resolutions or goals, NOW is the time to do this cleanse.

You’ll learn:

  • 7 types of negative people. Plus a bonus section on how to handle spouses, in-laws and business associates that are draining the life from you!
  • How to identify the negative scripts and limiting beliefs that are keeping you from being happy. (AKA: The reason you stay in a job you hate and date loser after lose.)
  • Why positive thinking isn’t about always being happy, when negative thinking can be helpful (really) and my process that ensure a good day EVERY DAY.
  • 2 SIMPLE WORDS that stop the INNER CRITIC in its tracks.
  • Why cleaning out your closets will do more than clean up your house.

This process will ensure you clean out the 3 main Life Toxins keeping you stuck: Toxic Relationships, Toxic Thoughts, Toxic Habits. It will also teach you how to set boundaries and priorities, to ensure that the life you create is the life YOU WANT…not the life your mother wants for you, or the life that you think you should have.

This is an eProduct and will be delivered to your email address once you add to cart and fulfill payment. You can learn at your own pace and go back to any lesson, at any time.

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Use Code: Outwiththeold to save 40%

*** At the end of January 2012, this product is being totally revamped and rejuvenated with new material and a printed version of the Master Life Cleanse Action Guide. The price will also increase substantially. ***


2012 Personalized Numerology Report  & 2012 Monthly Forecast
Save 20% ($97 $77)

Using your full Birthday (Day, Month, Full Year) and your Birth Name and Public Name, I can tell a lot about you. I can almost immediately see where your struggles are, why, and how to overcome them.

 Using the Birthday and Name info you provide, I take a few days to create a specific report for you. I share your Life Path Number, Soul Number, Power Name Number, Birthday Number and your Attitude Number (these 6 numbers are most important). I provide you with what each means, and how it relates to YOU and Your life.

 I then share with you your current Life Stage (there are 4) and what your mission/struggle is.

 I will also provide you with a basic forecast for your Personal Year in 2012 AND your 12 Personal Months. This will help you immensely in your planning!

 Business launches, book launches, divorces, marriages, pregnancy, travel, surgery, business partnership…Find out HOW and WHEN to act to make this a very successful, happy, EASY year for you! (Any time I’ve struggled, it’s been because I acted when the numbers weren’t aligned for me. Sometimes pushing ahead does more harm than good. Don’t learn the hard way!)

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PS: *** VERY IMPORTANT*** Remember to include your full Birth Day, Month and Year (time of birth is not used), your Name at Birth AND your Public Name (or name used now) in the Special Instructions section of the order.


 Live Class –2012 Outlook: What’s In Store for 2012!

Discovery Coaching Call

Jan 19, 2012 at 8pm Eastern (7pm CST, 5pm PST)

Save 50% ($95 $47)

  • 60 minute live class and mp3
  • PLUS Reports for Your Personal Year Forecast and Life Path Identity when you sign up by Jan 8, 2012 (delivered via email by Jan. 18).

I have found that nothing is as accurate when planning the future, as numerology. Time and time again I’m surprised at how life unfolds precisely as “the numbers” say it will. Pregnancy, career move, house sale…quiet times in business, booming times in business, people I should stay away from, people that will help me grow…ALL of it has been defined in my own personal numerology!

This class will give you an outlook of 2012 and what is in store for the World Year 5, PLUS how that affects each of the 9 Personal Years.

You’ll get a report of your personal year, what to focus on, what to avoid, what is inevitable. Good year to marry? Good year for travel? Or maybe you should stay put, stay single and focus on your career? Is is a karmic year for you? If so, there are certain things you’ll want to do!

Is it a  planning year, a contemplative year or a year where all hell breaks lose?

I’ll share it all with you, as well as how your Personal Year will interact with the World Year.

PS: *** VERY IMPORTANT*** Remember to include your full Birth Day, Month and Year (time of birth is not used), your Name at Birth AND your Public Name (or name used now) in the Special Instructions section of the order.

Don’t hate toxic people!

 

from Positive Inspirational Quotes (PIQ) on Facebook

I love this and I think it goes nicely with our Dump The Junk in 2012 theme. It’s not about making the toxic relationship ‘bad’ or creating enemies, it’s about setting a boundary for yourself that tells the world and the universe that you deserve to be treated well. You deserve to be valued. That starts by valuing your authentic self.

Don’t forget to sign up for the FREE Dump The Junk eCourse! You can learn more at http://kimberlyenglot.com/dumpthejunkcourse

How to Identify a Toxic Relationship:Should I Stay or Should I Go?

  • “I love her, but I dread spending time with her…”
  • “But, we’ve been friends FOREVER…”
  • “I never feel like she truly listens to me, but she never fails to call me at 3am after another bad break up.”
  • “He only calls me when he needs money.”
  • “I dread meetings with him. He manages to make me feel so inadequate…”

I get at least one email with a similar example per month, from someone who is unsure if they’re in a toxic relationship, and what to do about it.

The basic question they’re asking is: Should I Stay? or Should I Go? And they’re looking for permission to do what their heart is already whispering: This person isn’t good for you. Get out now!

But the guilt sets in. Followed by the rational excuses to stay:

  • You’re a nice person.
  • You don’t want to hurt their feelings.
  • You don’t want to deal with the drama.
  • You can’t leave your job right now.
  • It’s better to have negative contact than NO contact…at least this way you know they’re okay.

And on and on go the reasons to put up with this hurtful, harmful treatment.

Because only YOU can truly know the answer, I won’t give you a concrete Yes or No answer on how to identify and deal with a toxic relationship. I will give you 4 questions to help you assess if this is a toxic person for you (remember: toxic doesn’t mean they’re bad people…just bad for you, right now) and how invested you are in trying to save it.

Consider: Physical and Emotional reaction when with Person X. List 5 normal reactions for each. Then ask:

  1. What am I getting out of this relationship? (Why am I still allowing this relationship, if I have already identified it as toxic.)

  2. Do I truly care about the survival of this relationship, or has it just been something I’ve unconsciously continued with?

  3. Do I cherish this person and everything they offer for me?

  4. Am I willing to possibly do all the work in this relationship to make it work? Do I take full responsibility for my part and still (honestly) wish to continue?


If you’re interested in seeing a FREE video on my favorite techniques for dealing with people who drive you crazy, and the 10 Part Dump The Junk eCourse (with free reports, audios and articles sent directly to your inbox once or twice a week) REGISTER HERE:

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2012 is THE year to Dump The Junk…start now

My theme for 2012, as I announced it a few weeks ago, is ‘Dump The Junk.’ It’s fitting for more than one reason.

Next year in numerology is a World Year 5 (this is very different than a Personal Year), and the theme for Year 5 is releasing what isn’t working to allow for new opportunity to come in. Talk about Dumping The Junk! Depending on your own personal numerology, this might be more difficult for some people.

For example, I am personally entering a Personal Year 5, which is telling me that I can look forward to releasing a lot of stuff that isn’t working, having some adventures a long the way, and ending up in 52 weeks reflecting on and up and down year that was quite successful. I’m not going to give up and cry when things get tough, because I know they will.

World Year 5 might be harder for those of you with Life Path 2, 4 or 6, but if you can see what is coming it makes you feel more prepared and in control. If you are interested in getting your numerology read and having a 2012 Personalized Forecast done, you can learn more at http://kimberlyenglot.com/numerology/. I suggest that you get proactive and Dump The Junk NOW, regardless of the kind of year ahead!

You will naturally feel better, calmer and more in control when you let go of the Junk holding you back. Discover your authentic self, the one that is secretly sparkling under all that anxiety and self limiting behaviour!

Take 15 minutes today, do it right now if you have time, find the things that don’t belong in your life. Make a list, set the intention to do a cleanse, and then get to work!

The following items are ‘Junk’:

  1. People who constantly belittle you, make you feel stupid, or tell you that you can’t do something.
  2. The thoughts/beliefs that tell you those meanies are right.
  3. The activities that you don’t enjoy any more, even if you once loved them.
  4. The fear that you’re not good enough or that you’re a burden
  5. The Oprah magazines from 2003 that you’re going to get to ‘later’
  6. The books on your shelf that you haven’t read, and you feel guilty about that every time you look at them (read them, or donate them.)
  7. The j.o.b that barely pays your bills, doesn’t fulfill you, and makes you cry.
  8. The ‘Friend’ who only calls you when she wants something.
  9. Worrying about things that don’t really matter (or thinking that by worrying, you’re some how preventing it).
  10. Anything in your house that you a) don’t use b) don’t love c) don’t want.

It’s easy to get too busy to notice the Junk, but you really don’t want to wake up in 40 years drained and feeling abused. This is in your control. Do something about it!

Let’s start 2012, the World Year of Change, Adventure and Newness, with a fresh, clean and revitalized mind, body and spirit!

Wishing you a wonderful weekend, I’m off to finish the details for a Wine & Tapas Christmas party we’re hosting tomorrow (sparkling juice is on the menu for me ;-) )

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