How Does She Do It?

It’s time to get some fabulous info…to ACCELERATE your business!

If you are trying to get your business going…or need a booster, you cannot afford to NOT check this out!

Watch the video (It’s short)…and head over to IAWBO to get your FREE gifts (more than 30 gifts that you can’t find anywhere!! And you only opt-in ONCE to RECEIVE all of them – including My Discover Your Authentic Life expert series. Valued at $47 on my website!)

It’s IAWBO’s Birthday! But YOU get the gifts

I’m so excited to share this with you! As you know, I LOVE Gina Bell! She has helped me through some major mindset issues with my own business, and is my fab co-pilot for my Master LIFE Cleanse program!

And now she’s gone and done something insane…so insane, I really had to be a part of it!

You’ve got to see the Virtual Birthday Gift Bag that is available through the International Association of Women in Business Online (IAWBO)

More than 30 successful women (including me) have contributed their wisdom to this complimentary gift bag devoted to supporting – and accelerating – the success of women in business online like you.

And it’s SO much more than your average “give-away”…

Each item in the gift bag is an EXCLUSIVE resource not available for-free anywhere else and also includes access to a special interview series that will unfold on IAWBO’s blog… the How Does She Do It? 2.0 series. You’ve watched and you’ve wondered. Now you can KNOW what these women do to achieve MEGA success.

And, you’ll really appreciate this too…

You’ll get immediate access to all 30 gifts with just ONE opt-in! (You do not have to subscribe to any other list – unless you want to). No more having to sign up for 100 people’s ezines to get a crappy (pardon my French) freebie you can get anywhere. This is HIGH quality stuff!

Hurry — the virtual gift bag is valued over $1000 and is only available for a short time. You can see ALL the fantastic gifts included inside at IAWBO How 2010!

Kim

P.S. Once you register for your gift bag PAY VERY CLOSE ATTENTION to the thank you page where you’ll discover the MEGA secret we’ve been keeping. You’ve really got to see it to believe it!

Authentic In Business

Free Teleseminar on September 15, 2010

@ 11:30 am Eastern / 10:30 am Central
9:30 am Mountain / 8:30 am Pacific

“Authentic In Business:
Letting the REAL You Shine Through!”

Join us!

My friend and colleague, Andrea Costantine is interviewing me on the topic of authenticity and business.We’re talking shop, but it will be fun, I promise.

If you’re a woman in business (or want to be), listen carefully because I’m sharing some important tips for keeping your identity and letting your authentic self show in a place that can feel scary and vulnerable: with your clients and customers!

You Will Learn:

• How a MAJOR break-down can lead to a major break-through!
• 3 Main Ways to identify your life purpose.
• Top 3 things women heart-centered entrepreneurs must focus on to keep their business’ from becoming work.
• Why the people you surround yourself with have the largest influence and how much money you make.
• How to keep Emotional Vampires at bay!

Sign up on Andrea’s site:
http://www.andreacostantine.com/authentic/

7 Ways Women Sabotage Their Success

Overview:

Knowing just one of these sabotagers can dramatically change your success mindset leading to more fun, more money, and more time! (Who doesn’t want more fun?)

You will be ready to take on the world after reading this Special Report! In under an hour, you can…

• Determine if you are living someone elses’ version of success…and correct it, if you are.
• Go from 0-60! Take note if you’re an “ideas” person who never actually does anything.
• Get out of the comfort zone…and start writing that book (or training for that marathon, or quit that dreaded job!)

Authenticity open up opportunities, unless you hold YOURSELF back!

All of the top experts are talking about the importance of being yourself in business and life, as a way to attract clients, customers, and prosperity. In this Special Report, I’ve explained everything you need to know (and do) to get that authentic self working for you!

You don’t have to hide anymore. You don’t have to let your underyling, self-limiting beliefs hold you down.

You Will Learn:

• The Top 7 ways that women hold themselves back from success (including how much money they make).

• Why every reason you have right now for not being as successful as you wish, is a big fat excuse. And what to do about it to kick success into high gear starting today.

• Lessons from a “Pick-Up Artist” and how rejection is actually worth its weight in gold when it comes to designing your business (and life!)

• Why most people who interpret The Secret as “wish and wait” will spend their lives wishing and waiting…and how the Law of Attraction really works.(In “normal” language!)

• The productivity secret Ali Brown, Tony Robbins and Bob Proctor have in common that make them rich and successful...and how you can apply this practice to your own life to achieve the same results! (This is potentially the most important difference between them and you, and simple to fix!)

• When and why hunger is very good for you, and a huge indicator of your true success potential. (If you don’t have it, you’re not going to make it.)

• How to turn someone who doesn’t believe in you into a major motivator (and how to turn a  breakdown into a break-through!)

This is a quick special report to teach you to identify your limiting beliefs and move beyond them. If you don’t recognize them, they will forever hold you back. You can stay stuck, stay unhappy with the amount of money you’re bringing in, stay unhappy with your boss…or you can do something about it. You receive all of the essential information so that you can put your new mindset to work for you immediately.

Special Launch Price: $7. Valued at $30

Save until September 3, 2010

use coupon code: ezine2010

Be a woman of action! With clarity comes increased confidence and courage…and success is VERY ATTRACTED to those traits.

About the Author

Kimberly Englot is the Founder of the Center for Authentic Self Development and author of The Top 7 Ways Women Sabotage Their Success & Waste Their Lives.

She teaches success-driven women to identify and pursue their dreams and discover their authentic self, with courage and grace. After struggling for several years with, “I’ll be happy when…” syndrome she hit rock bottom, when her husband brought to her attention that she “hated everything,” and she instantly changed her life to become more aligned with love. She now knows what it means to be “happy for no reason”, and spends her time teaching other women how to do it, so they don’t have to feel the pain she felt.

Yes I’m Ready to STOP Sabotaging my success!

Only $7 for action-oriented ladies!

Save 76% until September 3rd

use coupon code: ezine2010

Earnings Disclaimer: Every effort has been made to accurately represent this special report and its potential. Please remember that each individual’s success depends on his or her background, dedication, desire and motivation. As with any business endeavor, there is no certain guarantee that you will earn any money.

Time to Speak Your Truth

I’m so proud of my friend, Andrea Costantine, that I just have to blog about this!

It is rare to come across a book or piece of work that is so very raw, real, and inspiring.  That is why I have decided to participate in sharing this work with you today.

Today is the launch of her book, Speaking Your Truth: Courageous Stories from Inspiring Women” – a powerful anthology of which I am an advocate for.

Speaking Your Truth has 49 stories for women by women. These stories are heart-wrenching and inspiring. The stories are based on love and healing, family matters, spirituality and much more.

Here are some things people have said about this book:

“Speaking Your Truth sizzles with brave energy. These amazing stories are a powerful testimony to the strength of human spirit, and a source of hope to all.”  Sharon Lippincott

“Read one of these stories and you’ll keep turning the pages for more.”  Susan K. Elliott

“The courageous stories of these women proves that there can be triumph over tragedy. What an inspiration to read their remarkable stories of resiliency in overcoming difficulty.” Danielle Waagmeester

“Speaking Your Truth is like a bowl of grandma’s soup on a cold day.”  Sara Ortiz

Find out more now and order your copy today of the Speaking Your Truth anthology. Get your copy (and perhaps a copy for a friend, your mother, or a colleague) here.

If you choose to support her, and get courage to speak your own truth, awesome! Thank You and Congrats ahead of time!

xoxo

Kim

The Only Person Holding YOU back…is you: 3 ways you get in your own way.

It sounds really harsh and shocking, and I want it to be that way. You are the person who is holding you back. There might be others contributing to the problem, but when it comes right down to it, you’re the one who lets them.

1. You replace your instincts with someone else’s advice, and/or worry about what other people think. Bad, Bad, Bad idea! This is a case where fear is good…in the form of your intuition telling you not to listen. If you are constantly looking for outward advice/approval then you have lost your authentic voice! You are holding yourself back by not having confidence in yourself. This is simple enough to remedy. Start with baby steps. Say no (when you really want to). Listen to your body (it reacts physically when something feels off) and get back to the basics (look back at your life and count your blessing and all the things you have already accomplished!)
   This is your life, you know how to run it! You don’t need someone else’s permission.

   
   

2. You are too attached to your “but” and have too many excuses.
   One of my favorite saying is, “Get off your but!” That is, look at the excuses you’re using to hold yourself back. Easy to identify by the standard…”I’d love to do __________, BUT___________.” There is a well known theory out there: if you are hungry enough for something you’ll do what it takes to get it (no matter what the cost). I’m not saying that you should go about things in an unethical, illegal or immoral way, but check your “but” next time. Then ask yourself, is this but a true CAN’T or a WON’T. There is a huge difference. Won’t is very empowering. I means that this is something that you won’t do for whatever reason, and stating it makes you realize how often the can’t is actually a won’t. Give yourself permission to say, “I WON’T exercise tonight because CSI is on,” and you’ll be so much closer to living your truth!

   
   

   
   

3. You are focusing on the wrong things. Have you taken time to figure your goals “from the inside out?”
   That is where true happiness lies! I wrote a blog on it recently. Think about this scenario (it makes your priorities very clear): if there were a fire or flood and I had 5 minutes to get out (or die) what would I make sure went with me? Most people say they’d grab their kids, pets, photo’s, maybe the odd heirloom. You aren’t going to be worrying about the Volvo or your designer purse. Looking at the inside-out perspective you can see that your family takes precedence over “things”…but are you living that way? You can say, “But I want money FOR my family. So they can have everything they want: nice clothes, iPods, travel.” But I bet, they’d rather see more of YOU then any of those things! Are you holding yourself back from happiness and wealth because your definition of happiness and wealth doesn’t actually ring true to you?

Think about those 3 ways. What is your true definition of success? What kind of excuses are you using, and how are they preventing you from living your authentic life? How are you letting someone else run the show called Your Life? Answer those questions and you will be light years ahead of the average person, who is content complaining about how things are, without actually doing anything to change them! You can also learn more way you are holding yourself back, and how to stop NOW, by becoming a Premium Member and joining us for the live call on Monday!

Want to use this in your eZine or on your blog? Sure as long as you don’t change anything and include the following:

Grab your FREE Copy of “Dump The Junk, and Be Happy” eBook at http://kimberlyenglot.com. Kimberly Englot is CEO of  The Center for Authentic Self Development. She is the courage you need to put yourself back on your priority list, without feeling guilty or selfish.

My Secret to the Law of Attraction

I was late jumping on  whole Rhonda Byrne “The Secret” bandwagon, by a good 2 years! But once I finally gave in, I jumped right on, and pushed everyone else out of the way, eager to take the reigns! I did everything I could think of to get more information, buying books, borrowing books, borrowing DVDs, audios and hiring a coach. I was/am determined to figure it out and I think I’ve found the secret to “The Secret!” — it was in a place I did not expect to find it!

I can’t cover it all here, but I hope you will join me for my LIVE call-in radio show on Friday (August 20 at 11am ET/ 8am PT) where I explain the entire thing. (Find all details HERE). I will do my best to give you the Cliff Notes version.

Since discovering the Law of Attraction, my brain “knew” what it had to do…but sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn’t. I kept thinking, “Something has to be missing.” Which, of course, added tonnes of resistance and mucked up everything that much more!
A couple of months ago I listened to “Ask Your Guides” by Sonia Choquette (I also own the paperback, but I do so much running around that the audio version is priceless to me!) And I started to do what she recommended…something I haven’t done if a very long time: I began to pray!
You can be hung up on that word all you want, but it’s just a way to say that I connected with a higher source. You can call it meditating, casting spells, or whatever you want…but it works if you do it. I “pray” all day every day. And it is the secret to trusting that when you ask, it IS given!

I know that feels a bit vague, but try it out. And if you want more detailed info, tune into my show where I explain it much more, including some of the mini prayers I use to get rid of my traffic headaches (I rarely fight traffic), the guides/angels I call on to keep me safe when I’m scared, and how I find bargains! It’s a magical topic and a fun show!

I hope you ‘ll join me live.

Kim

PS- DETAILS again: August 20th at 11am ET (10am CT, 9am MT, 8am PT). http://www.blogtalkradio.com/authentic-self. You can call in for an Oracle Reading or listen via your computer!

Letting go of what others’ think

The Next Premium Membership call is on Monday, August 23, and it’s all about how to let go of what other’s think.

Let It GO! How to let go of what others’ think…and start living your life, your way

Obviously, to keep the world running smoothly, and to not throw us all into complete anarchy, we have to care what other’s think to some extent. But I’m not talking about manners, social norms, or cultural rules. That stuff is fantastic, as a common courtesy for your fellow human beings.

I am talking more about the deep down, dark, scary “stuff” that you need to show in order to fully be you. You know, the light that you want to shine, but feel it’s silly, new agey, off-the-wall, and will send your close family and friends running for the hills shrieking “Witch!”

All kidding aside, you know exactly what I mean. It is important to understand that by shading that light, you are hiding a part of the real you, and you will always feel like something is missing. On the Premium Call, I’m going to teach you the exact process for letting that go.

Whether it’s the Law of Attraction, believing in angels, thinking you’re psychic, or letting people know that you believe there is a God, (which can be hard if you’re the intellectual, analytical, academic kind) you don’t have to fear what other people will say if you let that side show.

Fear is a human construct, with 2 exceptions: we are born with the fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. EVERYTHING else is something we have absorbed from others or created for ourselves. And it isn’t the fear of the actual “thing” that scares us…it’s the thought behind the thing.

You’re not afraid of telling people you believe in angels and that they guide your life and keep you safe, you’re afraid of the thoughts you have created thinking you know their anticipated responses. Sounds confusing, but it isn’t really.

For example, I am terrified of snakes. To the point where even seeing them on TV makes me squirm. Sometimes I close my eyes and tell my husband to let me know when the scene is over because they just give me the heebie-jeepies. Ick. I can’t even stand thinking about them now, as I write this!

BUT, it isn’t the actual snake that I’m afraid of. If that were the case, seeing the snake on TV would not elicit any response from me. My rational brain would tell me that there is no actual snake in front of me, and that I am safe. Therefore, I’d have no fear of snakes, except when they were in front of me…which is…never!

However, my brain has a “story” about snakes that it tells itself: They’re creepy, they’re slither, they appear in unexpected places, they surprise the heck out of you when you’re walking through the grass, they will pop up and bite you.

Again, the only snakes in my part of the world are small and completely harmless unless you’re a bug of some kind. They’re good for the environment, and I haven’t come across one in years! Yet, I still have a “thing” about them.

You have the same “thing” about being you. You have a story you are telling yourself about what others think, and what it will do to you. The problem with this, is that you know that you need to be you. In order to fulfill your hopes, dreams and goals — to be happier, healthier and wealthier, you KNOW that you need to release this fear.

I can live with my fear of snakes because I rarely see them and they do not affect my ability to be happy in life. I could not live and be happy while being afraid of what people thought if they see me as new-agey and woo-woo by my fairly conservative neighbors, family members and friends...and so I let that fear go! It still pops up, (hey, I’m not perfect!) but I have found a way around it, a way that I wish to share with you.

I can live my life, my way…and be happy! And so can you.

So in this members-only, Premium Call,

I am sharing:

• 3 ways to identify if someone is holding you back in life (and what to do).  I have a feeling you know this already, deep down, but I’m going to dig it up for you and remind you of it!
  
• A 5-Step Strategy for letting go of what others think, without cutting out everyone in your life! (no sense being YOU, all alone!)
• The 2 teeny-tiny little words that will COMPLETELY empower you to change how you view everything! It’s absolutely the most freeing phrase in the English language!

And I’ve got way more information and cool techniques for you!

Join us NOW or check out more information about the Premium Membership over at http://kimberlyenglot.com/membership! (Join us NOW and get access to 3 months of Archives in the private forum AND set your inaugural status BEFORE the price DOUBLES in October...never pay more than your current monthly price)

Catch you on Monday!

Do positive thinkers need to grow up and get real?

I had an outstanding day yesterday. One of the many things that made me so happy:
I bought a new printer a few days ago, and had to take it back. When I took it back to exchange it for one that didn’t jam up every time I tried to print, I actually was given money back. Yep, the printer had since gone on sale and I exchanged it for a new one, plus they gave me money in return! I felt so much better after 2 days of a stupid printer that didn’t work. NOTICE, that is all about my perspective on that outcome? (I could have been angry, yelled at the customer service agent, demanded my money back, went to another store and purchased a similar printer for more money. That is probably how I would have acted a few years ago.) 

So, I had a good day. This morning I woke up to find someone had commented on one of my blog posts…YAY! I thought, I am uplifted whenever anyone takes the time to comment. But this was a TROLL. Yikes. Yuck. Ick.

I sent the comment to the trash because I don’t need anyone smearing ME with THEIR “junk” but basically I was told that I was naive and “to grow up.” (The issue was a post I wrote about the power of positive, group thinking, comparing it to a Criss Angel episode I watched 6 months ago).

In the last 2 or 3 years I have discovered that (GASP) I feel better, happier, safer, freer when I believe that positive forces rule/fuel the world. I am happier when I CHOOSE to see the positive aspects of my life, and the examples in it. Do I believe everything anyone tells me? No. I am the first to check out www.Snopes.comwhenever I’m sent a crazy email. Do I believe everything that Criss Angel (a paid illusionist) does is pure and real? No, but at that point in my life I was searching for a sign, and I think I got one. Does that make me naive? Maybe in some people’s eyes.

I the end I am happy and my family is happy. What else matters? I am going to continue choosing to absorb the positive vibes of those around me, and deflect the negative ones. There is enough “junk” in this world, and I have my own to deal with, I don’t need yours! (And you don’t need mine).

 

Redefining Success

What does success mean to you?

I know that most people have a canned response. “Success means having lots of money, wearing expensive clothes, travelling around the world and driving a fancy car.” Notice that all of those things are external? They are all things that you “get” outside of yourself, and most of those things don’t make you happy for long.

Crazy idea…If your house were to burn down, what would you take? You’d take the photo’s, the babybooks, family pet…you wouldn’t head to the closet to get your favorite pair of shoes or that designer dress.

WHAT IF you defined success from the inside out?

So start this process with a quick exercise. What does success really mean to you? What do you want to do with your life? Write it down, not editing or worrying about others might think. Then look at the difference between what you say you want, and what you currently have. Create a “backward” map. That is, start where you want to be and map out a backward trail until you end up where you are now. Since you are where you are now, start there and take the next logical step to living a successful life.

 

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