Just do it: Change requires action
You want a business full of clients.
You want to know EXACTLY what to do next and HOW to do it so you don’t waste 10 hours googling free advice and then the next 3 months using the ‘guess and test’ method only to find out it doesn’t work.
You have children at home and you want to spend time with them. You want your business to run itself.
Coaches: It’s not your job to remove all suffering
I am guilty of it too: Feeling responsible to take away pain and ‘solve’ clients’ (or anyone you encounter) problems.
Where does this leave you at the end of the day (or teleseminar, coaching call, group program)? Unless people cooperate, implement and fully show up according to what you deem acceptable: overwhelmed and depleted at best, frustrated, angry and depressed at worst.
You can offer love, kindness, caring, but in the end others must make the choices that remove their pain…that isn’t your job. Your job is to listen, provide tools and strategies and keep them accountable. Do what you can to inspire, but do not attach your worth as a person (or value as a coach) to a clients results…in the end their results are up to them.
You provide the path to get to the door, but they must walk through it!
Join us for a Tweetchat about fear and limiting beliefs in biz
I am honored to be the guest expert for Gina Bell’s #IAWBOchat tonight at 8pm Eastern (5pm Pacific). It’s for women in business online struggling with limiting beliefs and fear that come with being an entrepreneur and really putting yourself out there!
Chat topic: Fear, Self Sabotage & Limiting Beliefs: Master Your Mindset, Master Your Life
You can follow the twitter hashtag #IAWBOchat through twitter search OR, join us through TweetChat.com and be sure to connect with me (@KimberlyEnglot) and @GinaBell!
It’s a fun, fast way to meet others like you, success-oriented women in business, boost your visibility on Twitter and gain more followers PLUS get tips on how to master your mindset for a successful online business!
Help us spread the word by sharing it with this link: http://tinyurl.com/3bn8duy (It’s a ready-made tweet about tonight’s tweetchat).
What is a tweet chat?
You can learn more about what it is, what to expect and how to join us (it’s free) at http://www.iawbo.com/calendar/iawbochat/
How happy people deal with fear
If everyone feels fear when approaching something totally new in life, yet so many out there are ‘doing it’ despite the fear, then we must conclude that fear is NOT the problem.
Susan Jeffers, ‘Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway’
As my wise mentor, Louise Hay (love her!) says, ‘The real issue is not the fear, but how we hold the fear.‘ Meaning, the fear is in your head (unless you are in physical danger right at this moment).
Once you realized it’s in your head, you can choose how you deal with it: from a position of power, or from a place of helplessness.
- “I am a failure.” vs “I can do it.”
- “I can’t afford it.” vs “I deserve to be happy and I will do what it takes.”
- “Nothing ever works out.” vs “I am always going in the right direction.”
You can choose! You can choose! You can choose!
Take responsibility for your results. Learn how to identify your self sabotage and fearful thoughts AND learn strategies to manage them forever. How priceless is that? No more fear gettin’ in your way…
If you want to learn more, you still have a few days to register for the Master Your Mindset, Master Your Life group coaching program. I am so excited to bring this information and these strategies to those who are truly serious about living a happy, healthy, wealthy life NOW! Learn more at http://kimberlyenglot.com/mindsetcleanse.
Break throughs are nice, BUT…
You have finally found the solution to your problem! If you just do XYZ, ABC will be fixed!
Your coaching business is at a stand-still. You haven’t signed a new client in months, and your emergency fund is down to pennies. You’re panicked and desperate and the more you TRY, the harder it seems. You’re at the point where you are so afraid to express excitement over something (because you can’t take any more disappointment) that you just want to give up completely and get a j.o.b. Read more
