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		<title>Your Story is keeping you unhappy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unhappiness is caused by pain, suffering or fear. But if you're are holding on to that pain, or suffering because you have wrapped your identity up in them, how can you possibly be happy? What if you let it go....?]]></description>
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<p>by Kimberly Englot</p>
<p>Sometimes you hold onto pain, suffering or your victim story out of fear. Who are you if you let this go? You&#8217;ve held on so tightly for so long, that is has become your identity. And so to let it go can be frightening.</p>
<p>What will happen if you let it go?<br />
Who will you really be?</p>
<p>It is in this fear and self-doubt that you are more likely to resist being happy, in exchange for your victim story. It is easier to continue with the <em>known</em> evil, instead of exchange it for a possible <em>unknown</em> evil.</p>
<p>I challenge you to replace your &#8220;known evil&#8221; with the possibility of happiness. Open up your authentic self, take a risk to expose it, and let freedom and happiness be yours. You don&#8217;t need to fight it. Just let it be.</p>
<p>Release that victim story, even if you think it defines you. Do you really want <em><strong>that</strong></em> to be your identify? It&#8217;s also the main thing keeping you unhappy.</p>
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<p>Kimberly Englot is an authentic life coach who teaches her client to uncover their authentic self to be happier, healthier and wealthier. Contact her at her website <a href="http://www.kimberlyenglot.com">http://www.kimberlyenglot.com</a> .</p>
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