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Identifying Self Sabotage part 2

Here is the second part of the 4 part Installments I promised.

Part one: “Self doubt and Limiting Beliefs”

2. Fear/worry.

“What if…”

Again, meant to keep you “safe” and comfortable, fear and worry are holding you back. If you examined the things you are worrying about, 90% of them will never happen. Of those things that do happen, the anticipation is usually worse than the actual event. It is incredibly silly to spend valuable time and energy worrying about something that will not happen. Why not put that energy into living in the moment and valuing everything you already have, instead of worrying about losing it?

Most common fear is fear of failure. A common story you tell yourself might look like,

“What if  I apply for a promotion and don’t get it? What if my boss things I’m crazy to even think I’m valuable enough to apply? What if he sits in his office and laughs at my application? Then I won’t get it and my family will be disappointed. My kids will never get into college and my retirement fund will suffer. My parents will never be proud of my and I will be stuck in the same house driving the same rust-bucket car forever! I can’t handle the rejection. I just won’t apply.”

The problem with these kinds of fears is that they hold you back, so you create a self-fulfilling prophecy. You don’t want the rejection of NOT getting the promotion, so you don’t apply. Doesn’t really make rational sense, does it?

But most of these self sabotaguers DON’T make sense rationally, but they are working because if they didn’t work on some level you wouldn’t do them.  This can be confusing and overwhelming to do by yourself. It can be tempting to just not bother, after all, you’ve survived this long, right? But if you’re interested in thriving, not just surviving, if you need extra help identifying your limiting fears my Mindset Makeover will help.

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